Home again! I love being on the road, but coming home feels wonderful too. My work leads me on journeys. This past week I discovered winding trails, small oasis retreats, historical markers, and so much more! What astounds me is I found all this in Kansas. I live in Nebraska. You would think Kansas is just an extension of Nebraska, yet it is not. They are very different in so many ways. From architectural designs to community forums, each state has their own personalities’, and I loved discovering all I could in one long weekend.
A friend recently asked me how work was going, just normal chit chat, between friends. I expressed how much I love my work. As the conversation progressed my initial response of love, was soon overshadowed by the dawning knowledge, I was having a very hard time dividing my work from my play. I find myself working when most are relaxing. Even traveling for work I was not taking time to play. Don’t get me wrong, I do love my work of exploration for the sheer joy of it. Treading up a hillside just to see where the path leads, poking my nose into a local store just to meet new people, taking photos of a run down school house just to share it with anyone who will listen, those are the events that keep me working.
The problem I have seen in myself over the past few months is I stopped shutting work out. That distinct line between your work life and your ‘real’ life is very fuzzy right now. I know I am not the first entrepreneur to feel this, and I am sure I won’t be the last. What I want to stress to every independently employed person is to not lose complete sight of that separation. Find time to shut the work away, look to others to distract you from your to-do-list, embrace the life you created with a clear mind ready to be wholly present for the ones who count on you.